the Father Wound
A 2-hour immersive workshop for women to rewire their relationship to the masculine and to their own inner masculine, for greater depth of intimacy in love and connection in life.
Sunday, April 19, 2026 | 11 am-1 pm CST | Virtual Live Event
This workshop is complimentary, so that this wisdom can be accessible to all.
I believe this work can change the trajectory of your relationships and your life. I look forward to having you join me.
Most people are searching for deeper love, stronger relationships, or the ability to attract a healthy partner, but they don’t realize their mother and father wounds are in the way.
Our father wounds impact the core of how we relate in love, life, & our relationship to our own inner masculine & feminine.
When our wounds are unhealed, we unknowingly project them onto our partners and show up in unintentionally disempowered ways that limit our success in relationships.
Until we heal our past, we’ll keep repeating it in love.
If we didn't feel seen or adored by the first masculine figure in our life and haven't integrated that experience, that pattern will repeat itself in love.
If we didn't feel safe to be in our feminine and haven't integrated that experience, that same lack of safety will present itself in life.
If we didn't feel appreciated for our talents and gifts and haven't integrated that experience, we will continue to feel unworthy as we are.
If you are single, you might:
Continuously attract emotionally unavailable partners.
Feel afraid of intimacy, even when you want it.
Feel like no one can match your depth.
Feel like you have to do more to be loved.
Feel like you're too sensitive, needy, or difficult to love.
If you are partnered, you might:
Feel more like their parent (or roommate) than their lover.
Feel that they shut down during conflict and are unable to shift the dynamics.
Feel unable to cultivate the depth of intimacy or passion you desire.
Feel like you invest more time and energy into nurturing the relationship than they do.
Feel that they fail to lead in the ways you desire.
When you heal the father wound, you will:
Release unconscious resentment towards men.
Build relationships that are rooted in compassion, respect, and resonance, leading to heightened levels of depth and intimacy.
Rebuild a more loving and harmonious relationship with your father
(or the first masculine figure in your life that left imprints of wounding).
Feel more grounded, empowered, and secure in yourself.
Hold your soft and sensitive sides with reverence, even when they're not received by others.
Get what you want in love and life with more ease and grace.
Healing and integrating the father wound is the first step for you to reprogram your relationship with men, with yourself, and to cultivate relationships rooted in mutual admiration, respect, and devotion.
(If your father passed away, is not physically present, or you are not in contact at the moment, this inner work can still be done energetically, so you can clear a new path for your legacy moving forward.)
What We'll Cover
01
Origins of the father wound and how it's impacted by the system we were born into
02
How the father wound affects women and their relationship to their femininity and masculinity
03
How the father wound impacts how we relate in romantic love
04
A guided meditation to alchemize and integrate the father wound
What some of the Queens have said.....
Carol, Feminine Embodiment Coach
Nicola opened the doorway into how I'm looking at the masculine.
She gave me so many valuable insights into how I am showing up and using language to initiate hard conversations.
Elia, Ayurvedic Coach for Women
Nicola helped me have a better awareness of how my unconscious self was influencing the dynamics of my relationship.
She brilliantly helped me to see that my masculine energy was over-present in the way I showed up with my partner, and she invited me to explore my feminine side in our container.
Cynthia, Somatic Healing Practitioner
Working with Nicola made a deep impact on the polarity and depth of my relationship with my partner, now husband.
I felt like I could finally fully embrace parts of my sexuality and femininity that I had unintentionally kept under wraps in our relationship.
Erika, God-led Spiritual Mentor
Nicola is a true breath of air in the relationship coaching space well as in masculine and feminine dynamics. She always meets in the middle to share both the masculine and feminine perspectives.
There are so many coaches, taking sides and placing judgement. She helps you hold both with clarity, free or blame or judgement, and call each other up in partnership in creative ways! She is the whole package coach and a true leader in the space whether coaching individuals or couples!
