Hi, I’m Nicola.
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My deepest desire in life is to have an impact on others.
Without impact and influence, life feels meaningless and unfulfilling.
This work for me isn’t just a business. It’s my livelihood.
I wore a mask my whole life. I never fully showed my true self to people. I did occasionally in spurts, but I was never received in the ways I desired.
I triggered people. I put people on the defense, I never seemed to get what I wanted. No one understood me.
This work was born out of my biggest core wounds of being too much, too difficult, inadequate, and feeling like an outsider in life, looking in. All I ever wanted was to be seen.
And so I made it my life’s work to master my communication and my relationships and to continuously improve how I show up with others. I want to understand humanity. I want to understand myself. I want to learn what people's dreams are, what keeps them up at night, what wounds they carry, what they do when they're alone.
Everything changed when I discovered and applied principles from three core disciplines to my life, which are now the foundation of my work—Communication, Balance, and Polarity. This transformed the way I led, connected, and inspired others.​
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This became my path back to myself.
It’s how I soften the edges.
How I build trust. Deepen love.
How I feel understood, without losing my authenticity.
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Using these areas as a guide for interpersonal relating, has led to relationships built on reciprocity, mutual admiration, and respect.​
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In business, I led more powerfully and ignited deeper transformations for my clients. My friendships became more meaningful, and in partnership, I experienced greater passion, depth, and intimacy than ever before.
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Now, I help leaders, couples, and organizations master communication, deepen influence, infuse more passion into their life and work, and create relationships that thrive in all areas of life.
The Union Method™ ☯︎
My signature framework, The Union Method, is at the core of the work I do with individuals, couples, and in my group programs. It bridges the gap between self-mastery and thriving relationships, and is designed to help you create vibrant relationships that feel deeply connected, magnetic, and fulfilling, whether in romance, business, or life.
The 3 Core Disciplines of The Union Method™
Balance – True relational harmony begins within by cultivating balance between your masculine and feminine traits, in order to bring balance into your relationships. This creates greater fulfillment, impact, and connection within any dynamic.
Communication – The words you speak, the energy you carry, and the presence you hold determine how others respond to you. Mastering verbal, non-verbal, and energetic communication allows you to inspire action, deepen connection, and amplify your impact in all areas of life.
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Polarity – Attraction is created through contrast. By understanding the energetics of polarity, you naturally cultivate intrigue, magnetism, and influence, igniting passion in relationships and the workplace, and inspiring deeper engagement in leadership.
What sets My Work Apart?
Expertise in Professional and Personal Realms
My experience spans both corporate leaders & teams and personal relationships. I know that success in one area of life fuels success in every other. My frameworks are adaptable to both settings, meaning you don’t just succeed in one domain—you become a better partner, parent, and human being.
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Evidence-Based with Real-World Insight
I combine data from Harvard, Gallup, and the latest research with my coaching work. I use proven statistics to back my strategies, along with client case studies and successes.
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Deep Expertise in Communication, Leadership, and Relational Mastery
I bring deep expertise in communication, embodied leadership, masculine-feminine dynamics, and relational mastery, helping you cultivate balance, polarity, and influence to build thriving relationships in every area of life.